Abuse can be experienced in a myriad of ways. Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse, Emotional and Psychological Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Workplace bullying, self-abuse and the list goes on.

No matter how hopeless and helpless one may feel, rest assured there is a path to healing and going forwards to leading a life that you value. It is entirely possible to get to a place of safety, choice and personal agency overcoming the emotional, psychological and physical scars of abuse.

It would be our honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.


No matter what your addiction, support is available to you. When moving away from addiction, the biggest challenge is dealing with the physiological addiction of the sensation that the addictive substance (and/or behaviour) brings.

Even when the mind knows that substance / addictive behaviour is bad for you and is interrupting the effectiveness with which you can lead your life, the craving of the sensation makes is very hard to overcome addiction.

With specialist therapy protocols, we work with exactly these challenges. Clients are often surprised at how effectively they are able to move towards making valued changes they never thought possible.

It would be our honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.


Anger problems can lead to significantly affecting your quality of life and that of those around you. Being angry when there is no actual threat that needs to be warded off can take your attention away from leading a happy, fulfilled and content life.

It would be an honour to work with increasing your insight and awareness as well as managing your concerns with anger. Once you are able to exercise choice in how you behave as well as deal with the unpleasant sensation that arises from anger you are on your path to taking charge and being the agent in your life.

It would be our honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.

Anxiety / Stress

Anxiety is a normal emotion we all experience from time to time. At times, it is helpful in getting us to realise that our physical body or sense of self is in danger so that we can take effective action. Anxiety is a natural way in which our body responds to real or imagined threat. It becomes problematic when it is not adaptive, and we end up being stressed for prolonged periods of time. It can go on to affect our physical health and immunity. It can devastate one’s sense of wellbeing when they are chronically anxious and fearful. No matter what the cause of your anxiety, know that there is a way to live a valued life with a sense of wellbeing.

It would be our honour to work with managing your anxiety and stress levels to help you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.


When someone experiences a complete lack of engagement with their work and / or daily life after a long period of chronic stress, that they may have been aware of or not, it can lead to a state of burnout. It leads to experiencing symptoms of depression and can make doing the smallest of tasks feel like you are having to walk through treacle. Working in the City of London, we have worked with numerous people who have suffered from burnout. The light at the end of the tunnel is that burnout is very receptive to intervention and recovery. After just a few sessions, clients are able to feel more energised, alive and hopeful.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.


Coaching is helpful when change is required, or performance has dipped. With our professional training and understanding of the human mind and behaviour, we are able to offer bespoke coaching to help each client achieve their best hopes. The coaching we offer ranges from performance management with executives or executive teams wishing to improve their potential to performance psychology with athletes who wish to achieve an edge when they are at the top of their game.

Coaching delivers effective skills and strategies to shape a change in behaviour in a manner which is led by the client. Our approach enables clients to lead a vibrant successful life, be it in their career or relationships, with a focus on their physical and mental wellbeing. Our coaching experience reflects many years of global corporate work, performance psychology and mental wellbeing.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.

couple Therapy

Human relationships are complex and even the best of intentions can lead to misunderstandings. The couple therapy work that we do aims at ensuring all parties are heard and understood without compromising the values they aspire towards in a relationship. Many a couples have been helped by the bespoke couple therapy program devised at Parmi. The program is individualised and aims to focus on the clients’ best hopes, marrying them to a solution focused end. Couples therefore find that after about 6 to 8 sessions they no longer need therapeutic intervention. There is always hope in relationships where there is an element of healthy dynamics which has been lost sight of.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and a more fulfilling relationship.


Depression can be as a result of many factors. Whatever the cause, the effects of low mood can be devastating. At Parmi, we focus on a compassion focused structured therapeutic approach that empowers clients to take charge and agency over their lives. Through careful management, we work together with clients to empower them to deal with the negative thoughts, feelings and behaviours that come in the way of them leading fulfilled joyful lives.

It would be our honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.  

Eating Disorder

Eating disorders take many forms. From anorexia, bulimia, to binge eating and emotional eating. Maintaining control or losing a sense of control in one’s life can lead to an unhealthy relationship with food. Perfectionism is a personality trait we often see linked to eating disorders. Many people who suffer from eating disorders are high achieving and successful.

Unfortunately, the suffering and reduced quality of life they experience as a result of the eating disorder makes it very difficult for them to lead a life that is content and fulfilled.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning where food does not define or shape your life in an unhealthy manner.  

Family Therapy

Families are complex and made up of different personalities. Expectations and dynamics can vary. When family members want change so that all members of the family are supported to live a more harmonious life, family therapy can help. Coming to terms with grief, challenging diagnosis / behaviour or illnesses are some reasons why families choose to come together for therapy. Working in a solution focused manner, families can be helped to overcome what may seem like a roadblock or wall in their ability to keep moving together as a helpful unit.

Grief / Loss

Grief and loss are a natural part of our life. None of us will escape the crutches of the three absolutes in life which are ageing, disease and death. It is entirely possible to experience this existential inevitability in a healthy accepting manner which does not take over our ability to continue living a valued life.

When grief and loss comes in the way of leading a life that is valued, in experiencing a sense of wellbeing no matter what the challenge, psychotherapy can be helpful. The therapeutic approaches at Parmi are compassionate, structured and solution focused. Where trauma is present, EMDR https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/docs/EMDR.pdf can be the choice of treatment.

No matter what your grief and loss is about, it would be our honour to work with you on your journey to better functioning and sense of wellbeing.

Chronic pain/health Concerns (Physical)

Health related issues can be either acute or chronic. Both come with their own challenges. Apart from the grief and loss that can come with a reduced ability or quality of life as a result of the health concerns, chronic pain can also be an issue.

Being adaptive and resilient in the face of these challenges can help you live a life that is fulfilling, therefore positively impacting your wellbeing. With our health psychology background, you can be assured of a personal approach in working towards your best hopes with you.

Chronic pain management has come a long way and there are many helpful solution focused interventions that enable clients to increase their ability to function. It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.


The human experience is unique and different for all. One size does not fit all, and every person is unique in their own way.

Learning to embrace this uniqueness with self-care, love and compassion is important. This helps you lead a life that is self-expressed and accepting.

No matter what your challenges with regards to identity are, be it gender, sexuality or race related, it is possible to have a healthy relationship with yourself and others around you.  

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.


(Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Pansexual, Transgender, Genderqueer, Queer, Intersexed, Agender, Asexual And Ally Community)​

Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender issues can bring up a lot of turmoil when adapting to a society that may not always be accepting. LGBT individuals are at times more at risk and have unique challenges. The approach at Parmi is person centred, compassionate and structured. We work towards your best hopes from therapy knowing full well the unique strength and ability individuals can have to lead a valued life no matter what the hurdles. 

It would be our honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing, better functioning and leading a valued life.

Lifestyle related Health Conditions

The fast pace of life, eating habits and lifestyle habits in the present day can lead to diabetes, hypertension, chronic heart disease, irritable bowel syndrome and a whole host of lifestyle influenced illnesses.

Changing lifestyle habits and patterns is not easy even when you know it is something you long for. We work with you to achieve your valued sustainable lifestyle choices in a person centred compassionate and structured therapeutic manner. Enjoying a healthy more vital life is possible.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.


Mood can be disrupted in a number of ways. From low mood, to being irritable, depressed, tired, disengaged or disconnected. This can come in the way of you leading a life that is meaningful and filled with purpose. It can come in the way of you leading a valued life.

Recognising that there is always a way forward regardless of what life throws at you and how your mood is affected, brings resilience and moves towards a balanced state of mind.

With our structured person-centred approach, it would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning where mood does not come in the way of you being an active agent in your life.

Narcissistic Abuse

The feelings of devastation, terror and fear that can come up when someone experiences Narcissistic Abuse is like no other. Narcissists are able to sense your inner fears much like a shark senses blood in water. In addition, they don’t follow any common-sense rules of engagement with life or relationships.

Whether you have suffered narcissistic abuse at the hands of a parent, partner, boss or work colleague, know that there is way out and way forward even if the situation looks dire and impossible.

This is an area of expertise that we have worked with for a number of years. With our eclectic yet person centred approach, we would use trauma focused therapies as well as compassion focused therapeutic approaches to help move you towards a life that is free, self-expressed and fulfilled. 

It would be our pleasure and honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning. A life free from the shackles of narcissistic abuse.

Neurological Conditions

Whether the neurological condition is acquired, organic or degenerative, individuals and their families can always do with support and help.

We are able to offer diagnostic assessments for specific needs such as dyslexia, ADD / ADHD and autism. Students seeking DSA allowances at university or people considering workplace adaptations are ideally suited to seek this assessment.

In the case of acquired brain injury, neuropsychological assessment with cognitive rehabilitation can help minimise the effects of any changes in cognitive function, be it thinking, problem solving, memory or attention. We offer individualised programmes to clients to suit their challenges and welcome working with the rest of professional team treating them.

When middle aged or older adults are concerned about memory loss, they can fear it is the onset of dementia. Many times, anxiety and stress can mimic similar memory loss and can be rectified easily. It is always a pleasure to work closely with clients to increase their insight and awareness so that they are better able to deal with the challenges they experience.

It would be an honour to work with you.


Obsessive compulsive disorders can be very debilitating, whether they manifest in obsessive behaviours or thoughts. The fear and anxiety that OCD brings can come in the way of you leading a life that you value and find meaning in. It can cause problems with functioning in everyday life when unchecked.

Using a person centred structured and solution focused approach it is possible to overcome the discomfort that arises from OCD such that it does not impede your ability to live a valued and fulfilled life.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning by overcoming the challenges that come with OCD.


Wanting to achieve your best, being diligent, completing your work on time and giving your very best every single moment can be a very attractive and helpful trait. However, given the pressures of daily and work life, it is often impossible to maintain this all the time.

If perfectionism is one of your traits, then anxiety will be no stranger to you. The inability to sit with the discomfort of not performing to your best or achieving all that has been set for you can cause great suffering. Panic attacks, insomnia, restlessness and the fear of the worst happening can come in the way of you reaping the rewards of your very helpful traits.

It is possible to maintain your values whilst at the same time being resilient to the stress and added pressures of life, work or otherwise.

It would be an honour to work with you to a better sense of wellbeing and functioning so perfectionism is no longer a weight that you carry around.

Self esteem

‘I am not good enough’ is a thought that is common when you have low self-esteem. The thought can take many forms, like ‘I am stupid’ and ‘I am worthless’ but the underlying belief resonates with not being good enough.

Fear of rejection, criticism and more, can stop you from engaging with life in a way that is conducive to you being self-expressed and free. It can stop you from making valued choices that enrich your life.

Knowing it is possible to make value-based choices without self-doubt standing in the way of you enjoying a sense of wellbeing and better functioning in your life can be reassuring to learn.  It would be an honour to work with you as you move away from low self-esteem.

Sexual And Intimacy Difficulties

Sexual and intimacy difficulties can be varied and are experienced differently by different people. Everyone’s personal experience of their challenge is unique and valid in its own right. Whether your difficulty is related to desire, arousal, orgasm or pain relating to sex and sexuality, it can be overcome.

With a person-centred solution focused approach, we can work together to overcome the challenges you face so that sex and sexuality can be experienced in a fulfilling and healthy manner.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better expression of your sexuality and intimacy.


Sleep Concerns and Insomnia

Whether it is sleeping too much or too little, unhealthy sleep patterns can be very distressing. You may find it difficult to have a good night’s sleep or you wake up within two to three hours and cannot go back to sleep. Lack of restful sleep can make you restless, irritable and vulnerable to poor physical and mental health.

Sleep concerns or Insomnia are thankfully very amenable to being managed such that you can benefit from what your body is naturally geared to do, sleep and rest. Using a combination of the third wave of psychotherapies we can work together in a solution focused and structured manner to obtain your best hopes with regards to sleep.

It would be our pleasure and honour to work with you on your journey to better sleep and therefore wellbeing.

Somatic Concerns

When the physical body brings pain, weakness or shortness of breath it can lead to significant distress and problems with functioning. Activities of daily living can feel like mountains that have to be climbed daily. Thoughts, feelings and behaviours relating to the physical symptoms can take over your life such that mental health is significantly impaired.

Psychotherapy can help to alleviate some of the suffering such that you can lead as valued a life as possible. With our health psychology background we can work together to achieve your best hopes such that your resilience and ability to manage your concerns is strengthened.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning.


Whether it is a single traumatic incident or chronic trauma that you have experienced, trauma can be debilitating and can come in the way of you making healthy life choices and leading a valued and fulfilling life. It can bring anxiety and depression with it. When experiencing trauma, it can feel impossible to envisage a life without it or a life where the trauma has been overcome. This is not usual. However, experience shows that it is entirely possible to thrive in life after overcoming the worst of traumas.

Using approaches that are recommended by the National Institute of Clinical Excellence (NICE), it would be our pleasure and honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning – a life where the debilitating effects of your trauma can be left in the past so that you can move on to live a life that is fulfilled, content and trauma free.

Work Related Stress

The present lifestyle increases demands on us. Working, whether in the city or not, can impose unrelenting pressures on you which can wear even the most intelligent, able and efficient person’s resources, thin.

Inevitably stress can lead to anxiety, burnout and / or depression. Having worked with city professionals and executives and with corporate banks such as Goldman Sachs, we are able to understand high pressured workplace environments and the challenges they bring.

It would be an honour to work with you to increase your resilience and ability to work effectively whilst maintaining a balanced lifestyle where your personal relationships, health, wellbeing and leisure all see movement in a valued direction.

Women's Health

Women’s bodies are complex. Whether it is polycystic ovary syndrome, problems with menstrual cycles, weak pelvic floors, menopause or diseases specific in women – it can affect your mood, wellbeing and ability to function as you wish in daily life. 

These challenges can lead to difficulties with weight management, mood, incontinence, pain and discomfort. You can be assured of an empathetic solution focused and structured approach when working with me so that you can be supported to achieving you best hopes from our work together.

It would be an honour to work with you on your journey to wellbeing and better functioning overcoming that challenges you face